I am a white american and he is a black nigerian. And yes he lives in Nigeria. We have been computer dating, talking on phone for 8 months. I love this man, but well it comes with problems. HELP?

This is a question for guys who have been on online dating sites and have been rather successful at finding girls on there. Thanks for your help!

My boyfriend is a very awesome guy. He’s really good to me. Treats me very well, however he has this issue with letting go. He dated this girl before me for many months and took provocative pictures of her. After they broke up he kept them on his computer and we’ve been dating for 2 years almost and they haven’t gone anywhere. I confronted him about them the other day and he said that he has them just in case she pulls something to get back at her. Thats making me question alot of things in our relationship. If he does that to her, who’s to say what he would do to me if we ever broke up. I just don’t know what to think. Help!

I am looking for meet moi an online dating for singles?

Hi my girlfriend has visited the "affair" dating site twice www.fling.com and its been in the last month.
I found in the computer history while working on the computer to repair it.
When I asked her she said it could have been acidently clicked on, Im not buying that for two seperate visits.
What do you think?

Which UK online dating website do you use? Why? Can you tell me your user? Do they allow nasty pics?

It was a jpg just floating on his desktop. Shes real pretty, I guess she is his "friend". He also told her on facebook that he "misses her dang face"… then erased it after a few hours.

He also saves her texts. fyi – he only had one text from me saved.

He also got her a job as his assistant.

He acts like he’s really into me, but if hes into this chick more, i think im done What do you think? Am I being jealous?
5 months dating

I sent a girl a message on an online dating site. She wrote back that night and responded and asked a few questions. I wrote back to that but I noticed she has not logged in since or checked the message I sent 3 days ago. How long should you usually wait for someone to respond? Does it sound like she wasn’t very interested and just writing back to be nice?

So I am 16 and he is turning 17. We will have been dating for 4 months as of July 31. I don’t have a regular job, so I have a limited budget. What would be a reasonable amount to spend on him? My boyfriend is into the techy stuff, major computer person. Sports aren’t really his thing. He loves piano music.
I want to get him something he will love, but I want it to be something that has something to do with our relationship. Something thoughtful and unique. If you have any questions just ask. Thanks!

I imagine the man not looking like his picture is a HUGE issue, but are there other problems? What other issues have you had from the world of online dating.

Oh, and I’m talking strictly about DATING sites, not hookup sites.