Posted on : 25-04-2010 | By : dianne | In : Computer Dating
I am soon 21 in april and i wanted to always date someone. But have a problem i know a lot about computers, but have crappy social skills. I get made un of a lot on how i wear glasses and get called all kinds of names. Not a good way to make a good setting to find a girlfriend?
i get made fun of a lot.
Of course! I truly believe there’s someone out there for everyone. You might not meet them tomorrow but that doesn’t mean they don’t exist. The person for you is going to appreciate you for who you are and they’re going to be proud of your computer knowledge. Give it time, keep your head up, and know that when it’s meant to be, it’ll happen.
Okay so this is just a suggestion but maybe you could get some contacts. Also try to dress with more style but dress in what interests you. for example if you like comic books or video games i suggest going to 80′stees.com getting some nice threads, also depending on what shape your in you should try to be in the best shape you can be because not only will you be attractive you will be healthier too. But the MAIN thing is dont change your interests or style for anybody. There are girls out there that will have the same interests as you. Also to get more social skills try to talk to ten random strangers a day anyone. This builds confidence and you’ll be able to find what interests the person.
Well it’s the environment you are in number one and number two you need to be close to a major city where there are more people. Social skills takes practice, I would focus more on making friends first and worry about finding a girlfriend later. I found my husband when I stopped looking and started focusing on life and friends.
I know exactly how you feel, and I’m going through the same thing. I get made fun because I’m quiet and people make fun of me until I say something to them. I’ve never been in a serious relationship, and I’m starting to think that I will never be. I think we have a chance we just have to be more social =)