Posted on : 20-06-2010 | By : dianne | In : Online Dating
I just started dating this man. We met online and recently decided to be boyfriend and girlfriend. All has been going pretty well, but I have noticed that he is still online everyday. I got rid of my profile and cancelled my subscription. I do realize that it is not the best that I check on his profile to see, but at the same time I am kind of confused. If he has me then why does he still check his account everyday? Is he looking for someone else? Should I be concerned?
First of all, you said "we" recently decided to be boyfriend and girlfriend. So you’re certain he agreed to a monogamous relationship with you? If that much is true, have you tried talking to him about it by asking why he hasn’t canceled his subscription? I met my gf online and we both got rid of our profiles and canceled our subscriptions immediately. I don’t blame you for snooping if he’s not being honest with you. However, you should have complete honesty in your relationship if it’s going to be healthy and successful. It sounds like he’s looking for another woman or chatting with someone. Why else would he go there? You need to know where you stand. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. If he wants to be with you, he’ll respect your feelings and do what you ask.
Well, he’s still looking to see what’s out there. So, just ask him about it. But he’ll probably be shady and just give you the answer you want to hear and keep his profile up.
Just ask him.
I too met my guy online and we both agreed as a mutual decision to remove our profiles. We both did. But I didn’t remove mine until we really were together and had talked about it,
Talk to him about it. Ask him why he keeps it, and let him know you just want to know and explain you got rid of yours and that if you ever go separate ways then you might consider activating profile again but in the mean time you want to concentrate on just one person.
Talk to him!
i would be concerned if i were you. Talk to him abt it in a very easy way! tell him how you stopped using tht id after u found him. talk him through it BUT if he insists keep using tht site givs excuses… its definitely an alarm for you!
Yes , he is still looking for some one so be careful he can hurt you. Don’t commit too early