Posted on : 29-07-2010 | By : dianne | In : Computer Dating
In the History I see lines and lines under "<<<Pu$#yHuntersCockHunters
but the site is coming from yahoo but I can’t get in. I cannot find what this is – weather just porn or a dating site, etc. Can anyone tell me what this is? Thanks!
I am guessing a pop up, cause if it were a site and he was able to access it, you should to.
Unless… you can go to File, and look into your internet options, he could have a block on adult sites when you use the internet.
I have an Apple and I don’t remember exactly what the clicks would be. I think it’s under File, and then Internet Options or Preferences, and so on.
At Yahoo.com, click ‘Web Search’ next to the space to enter text, then ‘Options’ next to that space, then ‘Preferences’ and make sure your Safe Search isn’t on!
If it was actually porn, there would be lists and lists of the sites he went through. If he clicked on a picture, it would be a different url, etc.
Ok, here is a little computer lesson.
Dating sites are warm and fuzzy names.
"Lava life"
"E-Harmony"
"Yahoo Personals"
"Plenty of Fish"
The list goes on.
Names like THAT… 99.999% Porn, or adult sex hookup website.
The name says it all try typing it or googling it
he is hunting for porn…and looks like he found it.
keep checking his history page and you can see what he is doing…
I guess he has not figured out how to erase his tracks.
PORN
isnt it obvious you already knw what it is, unless youre children are looking at porn , or someone else uses your pc, then it is him watching porn
Well – it could be like mine. I went looking for Cat adoptions programs and got all sorts of porn and crap. These things are insidious.
Even if he went browsing for things like Playboy, this stuff pops up forever after (I know from experience)
If he has done that then face it girl, it’s pretty normal.
If he did a search for the line you’ve mentioned then you have a problem. Don’t make a big deal of it, just ask him. But don’t make a habit of it – either you trust him, or leave him. Simple.
Best suggestion I could give you, ASK HIM!
I’m always amazed when people ask for advice in situations like this or similar. Go right to the source and don’t let other people fill your head up with their ideas or personal paranoia’s. There’s really nothing innocent about grazing porn. If he’s looking at porn, he’s looking for getting a woody by some other source than his wife. If he’s doing porn chat, well, he’s looking for someone to talk nasty with.
Ask HIM, tell him you want to know whats up and don’t accept a flippant remark about it being a pop up. I don’t see pop ups in my history. Go to the source.
I hope you get the answers you need to squash your concerns. An open dialog will do wonders for a marriage.
*I’m not man bashing here, I’m just strongly suggesting you two give it a talk and see whats going on! I wish you the best!
My husband did the same exact thing and I found out he was looking at porn. I would confront your husband in a nonconfrontational manner and ask him simply if he is looking up porn. If he asks why? Tell him that you found it on the history. He should fess up. Most men look at porn it’s not something to be upset over, but it’s different for every woman how they react to that. My husband told me, and I personally don’t see it as a big deal. You should ask him what’s up and if he is doing that.