Posted on : 23-07-2010 | By : dianne | In : Computer Dating
I discovered on my wife’s computer she has been viewing mens profiles on an internet dating website. Although she is not a member and can not send any messages she has been viewing.
Should I confront her about it?
Is it right that she should be doing this?
Don’t "confront", ask. Ask why she’s been looking on dating sites and what she feels that says about your marriage. Apparently something needs to be worked on, so looking elsewhere (even if just window shopping) won’t be a desire.
Find out what’s up…but in a non-confrontational way. Don’t accuse, just inquire…
Well as a newly wed Dave no she should,nt
Despite the fact she can,t conntact them why is she even looking ??
i would just ask her if she is interested In other men or she is just curious and to be honest with you and if she is satisfied with you in all aspects of ur marriage or If there is something u both can improve. Maybe she is just looking out of curiosity or maybe she is actually looking for someone to go out with. She is your wife and you should know her CHARACTER.
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Maybe she’s there looking to see if you are.
i don’t think it’s right that she is on a dating site. she is married. the only thing to do is to go to her and tell her that you know she’s been on a dating site and you want to understand why she has because you’d never go on one yourself. then see what she says. take it from there. just be honest and open with her about it. if she gets loud and defensive then she’s up to something she shouldn’t be.
No it’s not right, but sometimes we as woman are just curious. I do it I admit but it’s not because I’m looking for someone else, I don’t really know the reason to be honest. I would however ask her about this because if I found my husband looking at a dating site I would want his reaction. Take care of it now before it goes any farther.
Please answer mine, it wont post.
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Just ask her about it. Perhaps she’s doing it related to work or perhaps a friend of her’s has a profile and asks your wive’s opinion about a particular man. You never know – there could be a logical explanation. I mean, if she’s not a member and can’t send messages, she’s clearly not doing it to meet someone.
You really need to ask her about it. But honestly, I don’t think it’s for her! That sounds like something I would do for a friend. Don’t freak out until you know the facts. Good luck. I hope it’s what I think it is. Otherwise, I am so sorry.