Posted on : 24-08-2010 | By : dianne | In : Computer Dating
I was married for 20 years and became widowed 4 year ago. I have not dated in 25 years. Dating and all these on line sites are all new to me. The other day I found an email on my boyfried’s computer responding to a message from another women. When I asked him about it he said he met her on this porn/dating site, which he is a paying member. (He does not own a webcam.) He said he uses this site for entertainment purposes only and never intended to meet this women or any one else in person. I don’t mind him looking at these sites, (I don’t think it is any different than watched a porn dvd) but I am not comfortable with him contacting, emailing or IM, other women. I have talked to him about this and he assures me that there is nothing to worry about. He thinks I am makeing to much of this. He did go in and changed his profile to read that he is in a commited relationship and is only looking for online flirting. Am I behind the times? Is this an acceptable thing in today’s dating world?
acceptable or not it happens more often than anything else. I think it was good of him to repost his profile but it still is fishy. I feel if your in a commited relationship no kind of flirting with someone of the opposite sex. Make sure he knows how unconfortable you are with him IM or emailing another woman.
Unfortunatly there are a lot of men visiting these sites now and I dont understand why. There are plenty of sexy women right in front of them. Good Luck.